« If one day I was told that I could find love in Internet, I will have asked to have evidence. »
Codelyoko.fr is the site which brings the biggest nomber of Code Lyoko fans. When I arrived in 2007 on the site/forum/t'chat, I knew I entered in a welded community. However I will have never thought I will meet the love.
I arrived on the forum in July 2007. In the small 15-years-old Quebecker that I was, I didn't think to have friendly and lovely relations such strong one day. I must say that with Internet, everything seems possible. Nonetheless, with prudence, I ventured into the forum. My beginnings were chaotic, but fastly, I met some persons on the tchat whom I immediatly talked easily. Also it's at this moment that I met Aurelio42. We were in the same « bunch » of friends : the Igloo. I got along great with him immediately. Over the months, we talked less. Moves, lessons which restarted, the loves who went and came ... During more of one year, we didn't give news. We each made our life, being in the same « bunch » of friends yet . For my part, I wasn't the kind of person who forget the people who go out of my life.
I have the nostalgia which disturb more than one. I went back to talk with Aurelio. We had lots of thing to tell : our loves, our problems, our friends … Our relations changed gradually. He became my best friend, my confidant.
We are already in 2009. I wasn't allowed to connect me the week and the weekend because of my lessons, and I had problems with my boyfriend at the time who was also on the forum/t'chat.
We often send emails or messages on Facebbok with Aurelio. Then the feelings changed one more time. While my prom night and my exams arrived all at the same time, I started to think : Do I really have feelings for my current boyfriend or do I pretend ? I answered quickly the question : I fell in love with Aurelio, but I was hiding it with an impossible relation with another boy. How did we have feelings for someone who we didn't know ? I asked me the questions during several days. During my end-of-year ball, I understood : there was a confidence, a listening, moments of joy, crazy laughs … a relation which was the contrary of one I lived at the time. So I knew I had to tell him even I lost my best friend if it was not mutual. I told him the following day, the 20th of June 2009. I don't know if it was the fatigue or something else, but I had any stress. I talked to him and everything came naturally. I must say the things are easier with interposed screen.
The chance or the destiny, you can call it as you want, did that he felt something for me too. During the following months, it was an endless hapiness. We had ups and downs like a normal couple. Then we decided we had to see us during the summer of 2010. In March 2010, I talked about my relation with Aurelio to my mother who didn't agree. A long-distance relationship was impossible for her.... So I did a thing which changed my life : I decided to take alone a decision unwillingly. I left the 1st of June 2010 from my parents without telling them (I sent them a email to explain my action even so.... I'm not crazy!) Something that I didn't think I could do, I did it. I left for the airport with my friends. We did the path to three because my friends had to bring back my parents' car. I took the airplane alone and I left for France.
I arrived smoothly at the airport with 6 hours of jet lag in the head and lots of sleep to catch up on. When I saw Aurelio, it was magical. I gave him a simple hug because I was too shy, but I smiled. I was getting married the same year, the 20th of August 2010.
The years passed, but I consider that CL.fr has an important role in my life yet. I don't say the site is a dating site, far from it. However, we can meet beautiful people. We often say bad things about the site/forum because the staff is too strict, but don't stop at appearences because I assure you that every member of staff or not is human and has beautiful qualities.
Long live CL.fr